Sunday’s Spark of Mussar

Rav Yisrael Lipkin of Salant


At twilight one evening he was seen gazing at the sky in order to determine the exact moment of nightfall.  It turned out that his doctors had ordered him to rest for three days without learning, and R’ Yisrael carried out the instructions to the letter.  At the end of the third day, he set out to determine the exact moment of nightfall, for “Just as it is forbidden to delay the study of Torah of even one moment, so is it forbidden to begin one moment too early, because of the obligation of guarding one’s health.”


From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik

Please help me raise money for Chai Lifeline

Dear Friends,
On May 24, 2009 I will, for the second year, join dozens of Chai Cyclists in Chicago’s Bike the Drive, a thirty-mile rally on Lake Shore Drive, to raise money for Chai Lifeline, a wonderful organization dedicated to helping very sick children and their families.  
Last year was amazing.  While I had only planned on biking 15 miles, I ended up biking all 30.  This year I’m aiming for a total of 45 miles.  The experience of biking with friends and strangers for an important cause like Chai Lifeline was very rewarding.  The weather was great and my family was so proud of me.  I’m really looking forward to training as soon as the snow melts here in Chicago.  I am also willing to bike while listening to a Jewish lecture and expand my knowledge in memory of a departed loved one or as a merit for someone to have a quick recovery from an illness.  Just email me the name in Hebrew or English.
Chai Lifeline provides year-round emotional, social, and financial support to more than 3,000 children and their families every year. In our area, Chai Lifeline Midwest offers access to two-dozen free programs and services that touch each member of the family, helping them to live full and happy lives despite the presence of illness.
My objective is to raise at least $1,000.00 by race day and I hope you will help me reach this goal. All donations are 100% tax deductible.  If your company has a matching gift program, your gift may be doubled or tripled.
I know that the economy is very different than it was a year or even six month ago, but any amount would be helpful.  Thank you for supporting me, and in doing so, helping children and their families cope with the diagnosis, treatment and aftermath of serious pediatric illness.  Please feel free to forward this to anyone who might be interested in supporting Chai Lifeline. 
Warmly,
Neil Harris
P.S. You can sponsor me directly on line by going here .  Find my name in the drop down menu and then fill out the form to make your donation.  Thanks.

Sunday’s Spark of Mussar

Rav Yitzchok Blazer


Sometimes our sages use the expression “goes down to Gehinom”; other times they say “falls into Gehinom.”  R’ Itzele explained that the difference reflects the different kinds of sins.  Sometimes the descent into Gehinom is a gradual decay process.  But there are some sins that catapult a person into Gehinom in a flash.


From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik

Priority-1 Parenting Expo in Chicago this Sunday

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IT’S 5769.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE UP TO? 

Today’s world moves lightening fast. And with it, the challenges your children face and the issues they confront. What concerned you last year may be half of what you need to know today. Are there better ways to keep our children on track and ensure their success?

Add to your knowledge and learn real techniques to stay in touch with your children at the Priority-1 Parenting Expo – Chicago.

  • Eye-opening workshops led by expert Mechanchim and key specialists in social and emotional child development.
  • Proven methods to increase your child’s love for Yiddishkeit and learning.
  • Confidential talk time with Hashkafic and mental health experts.
  • Valuable free educational material to help you succeed in raising happy,   healthy, frum children.
Interactive workshops with:
Rabbi Zev Cohen Rav, Congregation Adas Yeshurun
Mrs. Michal Cohen, LCSW Jewish Child and Family Services
Mr. Gavriel Fagin, LMSW Director, Tikunim Counseling
Dr. Dovid Lieberman, Ph.D. Renowned Author and Lecturer
Rabbi Dr. Jerry Lob, Psy.D. Noted Clinical Psychologist

One on one consultations with:
Rabbi Yossie Feintuch, LMSW Principal, Torah Academy
Rabbi Yitzchok Goldberg, MS Principal, Yeshiva Darchei Torah

Special keynote presentation by:
Rabbi Shaya Cohen Founder, Priority-1

Sunday, April 26th, 6:30-10:00 pm
Chicago Marriott at O’Hare Airport 8535 West Higgins Road, Chicago

Suggested Donation: $18. For more information call 800-33-FOREVER or contact us
Presented by the Priority-1 Community Training Initiative.
Under the auspices of Harav Reuven Feinstein, S”hlita.

This important event is co-sponsored by the following local organizations:
Associated Talmud Torahs of Chicago
The Foundation for Learning and Development
Jewish Child and Family Services

Rav Hirsch on "What the World Stands On…"

Like most people, I learn Pirkei Avos on Shabbos starting after Pesach and finishing six weeks later.  The following is part of Rav Hirsch’s commentary on this Pirkei Avos:   Shimon the Righteous was among the last surviving members of the Great assembly. He would say: The world stands on three things: Torah, the service of G-d, and deeds of kindness. (Chap 1, Mishna 2)

Torah implies the knowledge of the truth and the will of God with regard to every aspect of our lives, personal and public, individual and social.  Avodah denotes dutiful obedience, service God by fulfilling His will in every phase of our lives, personal and pubic, individual and social.  Gemiluth Chasidim signifies selfless, active loving-kindness to promote the welfare of our fellow-man.  These are the three things which shape and perfect the world of man and all that pertains to it in accordance with the measure and way of its destiny.  Whenever and wherever any of these three are inadequate or altogether lacking there is a gap which cannot be filled and there is no manifest destiny.  Without Torah the human spirit lacks the wellsprings of true knowledge; it will be blind to the basic, indispensable element which makes man a human being and it will be receptive to everything except truth and light.  Without Avodah man cannot have the proper attitude towards God, his Master and Creator, and toward the world into which God put him in order to develop and protect it in accordance with God’s will.  Instead of serving God he will think he is  a master when, as a matter of fact, he will be the slave of his passions and his lust.  He will pander to anything that he feels can serve or prejudice his interests, instead of being exalted and ennobled by him in accordance with God’s purpose, everything he touches will receive the impress of his depravity and error.  If he omits Gemiluth Chasadim he will be without that characteristic which is the  very first trait of godliness.  Instead of being God-like in acting as a creator of happiness and prosperity for his fellow-man, he will harden his heart in callous selfishness, and mankind will lack that bond of brotherhood and loving-kindness within which alone all happiness and joy of life can prosper.



Yeah, I know, it’s a long quote.  But, in these words, Rav Hirsch (as rendered into English by Gertrude Hirschler in 1967) really sums up Torah Judaism and our place in the world.  He not only shows us how Torah, Avodah, and Gemilus Chassadim must enhance our world, but Rav Hirsch skillfully draws a picture of what a person is like who doesn’t engage in these three things.  He willl:  “be receptive to everything except truth and light”, “be the slave of his passions and his lust”, and “harden his heart in callous selfishness, and mankind will lack that bond of brotherhood and loving-kindness within which alone all happiness and joy of life can prosper”.


The image of a three-legged table isn’t just a random picture.  If one doesn’t exercise a balance of Torah, Avodah, and Gemilus Chassadim then it’s as if the table is either missing a leg or the table is slanted.  Either way, it isn’t stable.  We see that all three elements must exist in order to achieve a “balanced” Torah observant Jew.



Sunday’s Spark of Mussar

Rav Nosson Zvi Finkel, the Alter of Slabodka


Entering R’ Nosson Zvi’s house, a tamid removed his hat, and placed it, brim down, on the table.  R’ Nosson Zvi scolded him, saying, “The brim of the hat is wet from perspiration.  How can you soil the tablecloth with it?  This is considered doing damage.”


From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik