Rav Simcha Zissel Ziv, the Alter of Kelm
A person who slaughters his Evil Inclination is considers to have offered a sacrifice on the alter. But he must now the laws of kosher slaughtering- how and what to slaughter.
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
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Sunday’s Spark of Mussar
Rav Simcha Zissel Ziv, The Alter of Kelm
“Avohom raised his eyes.” (Genesis 22). The Torah emphasizes that even the raising of eyes should be the result of thought and intent.
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
As an aside, please see this story about R Eliyahu Lopian:
While waiting for a bus in Yerushalyim with one of his talmidim, Rav Lopian was learning. At some point he picked his head out of the sefer he had and looked up to see if the bus was coming. Right after he did this, he turned to his student and said something like, “Had I been in Kelm and did this, I would have gotten an hour mussar shmooze.”
The idea being two fold:
a) Looking to see if the bus was coming doesn’t make the bus come any faster
b) It’s a bus. Is a bus so important that you are willing to give up even a second of your seder in learning. Who is in control? You or the bus?
Around the Shabbos Table-from the Salant Foundation
AROUND THE SHABBOS TABLE\CHUKOS
As the People of Israel traveled through the desert on their way to the Land of Israel, they came to the border of Edom, who were the descendents Eisev. Moshe asked the leaders of Edom permission for his people to pass through Edom because it was the most direct route to Israel. Moshe explained that his people “will not pass through field or vineyard.” Meaning, that they will circumvent the residential areas, so that their passing will not cause any damage.
The leaders of Edom refused Moshe’s request and amassed troops at the borders. Israel could have defeated Edom, just as they defeated the more powerful kingdoms of Og and Sichon. However, Moshe elected to withdraw and took a circuitous route around Edom.
What was the rationale of Moshe’s decision? Why did he feel it was more important to yield to Edom, than to take lead millions of people on a longer, more dangerous route?
Moreover, there were several compelling reasons for Moshe to go through Edom. Firstly, Moshe had permission from HaShem to bring Am Yisrael through Edom. Secondly, Edom refused even though they heard the great miracles that HaShem had performed for Israel. Lastly, their stubborn refusal and aggressive response revealed that had were openly hostile to Am Yisrael. Since Edom were descendents of Eisev, they were “family” of Am Yisael.
Therefore, Moshe decided that family peace should be preserved under all circumstances.
Family relationships are a special gift from HaShem. Therefore, we should endeavor to preserve and protect our family relationships, as much as possible. As a result, HaShem will bless us with peace – the supreme element for quality living.
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Sunday’s Spark of Mussar
Rav Simcha Zissel Ziv, The Alter of Kelm
“Nothing in nature is perfect; everything requires correction.”
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
Mishpacha article about Rav Hirsch
Dr. Yitzhok Levine has posted the Mishpacha Magazine article about Rav Hirsch’s 200th birthday. It was written by Rabbi Yitzchok Frankfuter and give a great history of Rav Hirsh’s life, struggles, and accompliments to Klal Yisrael (inlcuding a connection to both the beginning of the Agudath Israel and the Beis Yaakov movment). This was easily one of my favorite quotes for the article:
It is noteworthy that Rav Shimon Schwab related that the Imrei Emes once told him that “the Tzaddik of Frankfurt [Rav Hirsch] was a leibidege mussar sefer [a living morality text].”
The article is an easy read and is available here, thanks to Dr. Levine (who gave me permission to post the link).
Sundays Spark of Mussar
Rabbi Yisrael Salanter
On the Torah’s statement that a wife was created as “ezer kenegdo”, a helpmate against him,” the Talmud explains, “If he is worthy, she is a helpmate. If he is not worthy, she is against him.” R’ Yisrael added, “This applies to every minute of a person’s life. Whenever I improve myself, my wife becomes better too.”
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
Shavuos link
The following link will take you to an amazing essay based on Nachlas Yosef and a powerful message from Megillas Rus. It is well worth the print out (only 9 pages) and worth the time to read. I first heard this as a mussar schmooze (by Rabbi Moshe Wruble) while learning in E”Y in 1991. The message of how powerful even small choices are stays with me and is often times a source of comfort when I fall into thinking that “my actions don’t really change things”.
Redeption and The Power of Small Things- based on Nachlas Yosef by Rav Yosef Lipovitz
Sunday’s Spark of Mussar
Rabbi Yisrael Lipkin of Salant
When he davened with a minyan, R’ Yisrael would hurry so as not to delay the congregation. But when he davened privately, he would pray at length, with tremendous concentration and dveikus.
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
At a shopping mall near you: The Mussar Kisok
A few weeks ago I went to a big shopping mall in a suburb of Chicago with my family. Among the many kiosks there I found a “Kabbalah Kiosk”. Like any given kiosk you see in a mall these days, this one was run by several citizens from Israel who had come to America to attempt to make some money.
This one has lots of charms, mezzuzah covers, earrings, necklesses, rings, pictures, ect depicting things like the Ten Sefirot, several Hebrew phrases, and other such Kabbalah items (although they didn’t sell these albums). The young adults selling the items were from Tel Aviv and Yerushalyim, both of them seemed nice. After walking away I thought of that article in the Forward, titled “The Path of the Just: Is Mussar the new Kabbalah?”.
Would there ever be such a thing as a “Mussar Kiosk” in a shopping mall? I doubt it, but if there was, then the kiosk would probably be very hard to find in the mall, as most Baalei Mussar tended to stay away from the spot-light and not reveal themselves. It would be in a place that you might have to walk past once or twice before noticing it.
They would most likely sell all of the products from the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation, such as bookmarks, posters, tapes and cds.
You would be able to by cool things like micro-sized copies of Mesillas Yesharim and Orchos Tzadikim with keychains attached to them. Or even MP3s and ebooks of Mussar seforim.
You could buy jewlery with silver blades of grass attached to them to remind your wifes and daughters of this: There is no blade of grass below that does not have a malach on high that smites it and says to it: Grow! (Bereishis Rabbah 10:6-7)
They might have small “Tefillin mirrors” with the words “Mussar starts here” printed on them.
Paperweights that look like buckets of water to remind people the story about when the Chofetz Chaim was a boy and while other kids thought it would be funny to freeze the water in the buckets for the local water carrier, young Yisrael Meir would empty the buckets as chessed to the water carrier.
Hot coffee and latkes would be available to remind visitors that when Rav Dessler was little boy he use to get up early on Shabbos to learn with his Rebbe before davening. His mother would have hot coffee and tasty latkes (probably small cakes) waiting for him when he got out of bed. While the ikar of getting up was to learn, he himself writes that because of what his mother had waiting for he, he “got out of bed quicker”. This was an example of “Sh’lo lishma, bo lishma”.
They would, for sure, sell the trash can that I have dreamed about, based on the awesome trash cans they had in the Alter of Kelm’s Talmud Torah. These trash cans were designed to be very narrow at the bottom and wide at the top (sort of like an inverted cone). If you were not careful in how you put your trash into it, it would tip over. They were designed to teach the talmidim that each action, even throwing garbage away, has an effect.
You could buy bumperstickers that would say: “I break for Midos Tovos”, “Bein Adom L’Chavero on board”, “If I’m driving to slow, then you might want to work on your Savlanut”, “My other car is a Beis HaMussar”, “Honk if you did Teshuva”, and “If I’m driving too fast, it’s becuase I’m working on the midah of Zerizus”.
Again, I doubt if items a kiosk like this would ever end up in a mall, but I’d love to work there and I’d be smiling big time if someone came over to ask if we sold hammers, as a reference to this Mussar exercise.
Sunday’s Spark of Mussar
Rabbi Yisrael Lipkin of Salant
The head of a large company turned to R’ Yisrael with the following question. He had only one hour free a day to learn. What should he learn during that time? “Spend the hour learning Mussar,” answered R’ Yisrael. “If you do so, then you will discover many more free hours in the day.”
From Sparks of Mussar by R Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik